1 Corinthians 10:13

When someone says, “God won’t give you more than you can handle”, what has happened is a misunderstanding in interpretation.  The issues is a context issue (as with most misunderstandings).In this chapter Paul is specifically talking about Temptations/wrongdoings or sin not suffering.  Paul is saying that with temptation we all have a choice.  

If we believe the concept that God won’t give us more than we can handle then it allow us to take all the responsibility off us and we place the blame on God.